Social Background of Pride and Prejudice by Pamela Whalan

The Social Background of Pride and Prejudice

by Pamela Whalan

Jane Austen, engraving by Lizars based on watercolor by James Andrews after unfinished work by Cassandra Austen, published 1870

Jane Austen, engraving by Lizars based on watercolor by James Andrews after unfinished work by Cassandra Austen, published 1870


The purpose of this paper is to give some idea of the manners, habits, and expectations of the English gentry of the late 18th and early 19th century. Having a working knowledge of the world in which Jane Austen lived gives a 21st century reader some of the clues that Austen contemporaries would pick up immediately. Armed with this knowledge, you will know why certain actions were performed, or why something that might seem slightly irregular to you was considered the height of vulgarity, or quite scandalous, to someone who lived two hundred years ago. We have to be careful not to judge a character’s actions by 21st century standards, when the expectations and the opportunities of 18th century England were so different.

Matrimony and Finances: Women’s Options, Marriage Settlements, and Family Obligations

Let us take an excerpt from Pride and Prejudice to show how different the world was, and to give you some idea of approaching a reading of Austen’s works without too much 21st century judgemental baggage intruding on an understanding of what she was doing.

Sir William and Lady Lucas were speedily applied to for their consent; and it was bestowed with a most joyful alacrity. Mr Collins’s present circumstances made it a most eligible match for their daughter, to whom they could give little fortune; and his prospects of future wealth were exceedingly fair. Lady Lucas began directly to calculate with more interest than the matter had ever excited before, how many years longer Mr Bennet was likely to live; and Sir William gave it as his decided opinion, that whenever Mr Collins should be in possession of the Longbourn estate, it would be highly expedient that both he and his wife should make their appearance at St James’s. The whole family in short were properly overjoyed on the occasion. The younger girls formed hopes of coming out a year or two sooner than they might otherwise have done; and the boys were relieved from their apprehension of Charlotte’s dying an old maid. Charlotte herself was tolerably composed. She had gained her point, and had time to consider of it. Her reflections were in general satisfactory. Mr Collins to be sure was neither sensible nor agreeable; his society was irksome, and his attachment to her must be imaginary. But still he would be her husband. -Without thinking highly either of men or of matrimony, marriage had always been her object; it was the only honourable provision for well-educated young women of small fortune, and however uncertain of giving happiness, must be their pleasantest preservative from want. (Pride and Prejudice, I, 22, pp.137 – 138)

If we judge this novel by 21st century standards it seems that it wouldn’t hurt the girls to find a job and Mrs Bennet could get rid of the butler, the cook, the two housemaids, and the housekeeper if she was worried about having no money. But look at that last sentence in the above passage. Marriage was the only honourable provision for women in the class of society to which the Bennet and the Lucas families belonged.

The number and kind of jobs available, especially for women, were far more limited then than they are today. Remember this was in the days before Information Technology. It was in the days before radio, television, telephone, and electricity. Almost any job that a person leaving school today is likely to be thinking about as a career probably didn’t exist when Pride and Prejudice was written.

The only respectable paid work open to a gentlewoman, i.e. of the class to which the Bennet family belonged, was the job of lady companion or of governess. Fancy being Mrs Jenkinson, Miss de Bourgh’s companion, always having to be pleasant to that boring little hypochondriac and always under the thumb of Lady Catherine! It might not be unpleasant to be governess to the little Gardiner children or to the large family that you may be sure Jane and Mr Bingley would produce, but even in such kindly households as these, a governess lived in a room close to the schoolroom, was on duty 24 hours a day, had, perhaps, a week’s holiday per year, and earned between 10 and 20 pounds per year. Of course she had her board and keep but you wouldn’t get rich on that salary, nor could you do much to plan for your retirement, and if you did not have agreeable and considerate employers, your life could be very miserable indeed. The only other honourable occupation open to girls such as the Bennets was marriage, and even here it was pretty hit and miss.

Once a girl married her property became her husband’s. It was almost impossible for a woman to get a divorce even if her husband beat her, misused her money, was constantly drunk, unfaithful, or neglectful. She could only sue for divorce if her husband brought his mistress to live in the marital home. That was why it was so necessary for marriage settlements to be drawn up. A marriage settlement was a legal document drawn up before the marriage took place, guaranteeing that the bride would have a certain sum “settled” on her, i.e. she was entitled to the interest from that money during her lifetime, and that money could be willed to her children. A marriage settlement also clearly stated what she would be entitled to if she were widowed, or what would happen to any money she brought into the marriage, were she to predecease her husband. The amount of a girl’s marriage settlement was usually determined by how much money she brought into the marriage, i.e. her dowry or jointure. If the husband were very wealthy he might supplement this as Mrs Bennet expected Mr Darcy would do when she spoke of how much “pin money” Elizabeth would have (Pride and Prejudice, III, 17, p.419).

If a girl eloped and was married without a marriage settlement, any money that had been legally hers at the time of the marriage became the property of her husband, without any safeguards on how he could use it. He could disappear the next day and the girl could be left penniless. Does this give you some idea of the enormity of what could have happened if George Wickham had successfully eloped with Georgiana Darcy? Can you see how important it was that Lydia Bennet should have money settled on her before the wedding took place? Elopement was not just a moral lapse but also a most imprudent step. A man who would talk a girl into eloping with him was not a gentleman according to the code of conduct of the time, because by eloping he was ruining the girl’s reputation and, even more importantly, he was profiting financially by preying on her innocence and ignorance of the world.

Notice that George Wickham is only interested in single girls with money. He is not so silly as to run off with a rich married woman. Apart from the fact that her money would be so tied up through the marriage settlements that he wouldn’t be able to get his hands on it easily, if a man ran off with a married woman, her husband could sue him. You see, legally a man’s wife was his property. If another man illegally used his property, i.e. his wife, she became “damaged goods” and the husband could take out a civil suit against the lover; he could get quite a lot of money in damages based on rank and fortune, length of marriage, whether the men had been friends, etc. The husband could get as much as 10,000 pounds from his wife’s lover to sooth his wounded pride. These civil actions were between men only. An injured wife could not get such compensation if her husband ran away with his mistress.

The Bennet girls had no brother. If they had had a brother, he would have inherited the family property, but he would also have been obligated to keep under his roof his mother and all the unmarried sisters and provide them with an allowance, as well as bed and board. This would have affected his own chances of marriage, as he would have had the expense of keeping his mother and sisters, as well as his wife and any children he might have. And if you were a young woman considering marriage, would you really want to share your home with Mary Bennet practising her scales and Mrs Bennet suffering with her nerves? Do you see now why Charlotte Lucas’s brothers were so “relieved from their apprehension of Charlotte’s dying an old maid”?

Lady Lucas started calculating Mr Bennet’s life expectancy because the estate of Longbourn was entailed, i.e. was passed on to Mr Bennet’s nearest male blood relative. As the Bennet girls had no brother, Mr Collins would inherit when their father died, and they would not have a home, unless their uncle, Mr Gardiner, or their aunt, Mrs Phillips, took them in. As the Gardiners had a young and increasing family, it is unlikely that the Bennets would have lived under the same roof. They might have shared the Phillips’s home in Meryton, but if they did, one wonders about the harmony when Mrs Bennet and Mrs Phillips lived at such close quarters. The most likely alternative would be that the family would move into a rented cottage, where they would live on the interest of the five thousand pounds of Mrs Bennet’s marriage settlement, i.e. on 250 pounds per year, with some help to pay the bills coming from their generous uncle Gardiner.

Cost of Living: Travel and Clothing

Austen was acutely conscious of the cost of living and the price of everything, including the price of matrimony. So perhaps I should now give you some idea of the cost of living. One pound in 1810 had roughly the same purchasing power as $100 – $150 today. This is a very rough estimate and you also have to realise that there were periods of rapid inflation and recession, as the Napoleonic Wars, which so closely followed the American War of Independence, provided a very unstable economic period throughout the late 18th and early 19th centuries. Since Mr Darcy had 10,000 pounds per year, his income today would be about one million dollars per annum. Of course from that he would have the upkeep of Pemberley and his living quarters in town, as well as those of his sister, whose London establishment would have been separate from his own. He would also have had many calls on his purse of the “noblesse oblige” kind, but you see that he was, indeed, a good “catch.”

Another thing to remember is that some things that are very inexpensive today were extremely expensive at the beginning of the 18th century, and some things that were necessities then, are completely unnecessary today.

Travel is a good example. You could not expect to keep a horse and carriage unless you had an income of at least 1,100 pounds per annum, i.e. over $110,000. In today’s world you can own a car if you are earning much less than that, but feeding and stabling a horse and paying the wages of a groom were more expensive than paying for the registration, insurance, and petrol for a car. Do you see why Mrs Bennet thought that Mr Darcy was too proud to talk to Mrs Long because she came to the ball in a hack chaise, i.e. in a taxi? (Pride and Prejudice, I, 5, p.21) Mrs Long’s income would not have stretched to owning a carriage.

Roads were rather hit and miss affairs too. Post roads were like tollways today. Businessmen built them and you were charged by distance, so even though you were using your own vehicle, if you travelled on a post road, each time you came to a tollgate you had to pay for the next stage. The cost in today’s money was approximately 50c per kilometre.

Even if you used your own carriage, you would have had to change horses about every twenty five kilometres, or else travel no more than fifty kilometres in a day, because you had to rest the horses. Very rich people could send horses that they owned ahead to be waiting for them at the various coaching inns, but that meant a long planned trip and incredible expense, as they would have to send grooms ahead and pay for stabling too. More commonly you hired horses for each stage of the journey. If you were travelling post, i.e. if you hired a chaise with two horses and a postilion (driver), the cost was 1/- per mile.

The distance from Longbourn to Rosings we know was about 50 miles, so the cost of travelling there would be 50/-, 2 pounds ten, or in today’s equivalent close to $300. Of course three people, Sir William and Maria Lucas and Elizabeth Bennet, travelled together and they broke their journey at the Gardiner’s London house, so they did not have to pay for overnight accommodation or meals, but still it worked out at about $100 each, and that was one way. In the course of the novel Mr Collins makes at least three trips between Rosings and the environs of Longbourn, so wooing and wedding from a distance was not an inexpensive business. He probably travelled by stage coach rather than post for most of the way, but the costs would still have been considerable. You might like to look again at that conversation between Elizabeth and Darcy where they talk of whether Charlotte Lucas is settled within “easy distance” of her family. (Pride and Prejudice, II, 9, p.201) Travelling fifty miles “of good road” is no hardship to a rich young man, but to someone who has to count every penny, making such a journey has to be considered very carefully.

If you travelled by stagecoach, costs were about half what they were travelling post. Travel by stage was not as comfortable, respectable, or convenient as travelling post. A young lady of Elizabeth Bennet’s class would travel by stage only in extreme emergency and never unaccompanied, so there would always be two fares to pay, therefore negating any savings. The stage also only travelled to the centre of a town, so you had to find your own way to your village or country home.

Looking at the cost of travelling also shows us the economic position of the Gardiners, whose holiday to Derbyshire would have cost an enormous amount of money. To have so much expendable income means that Mr Gardiner’s business was doing very well.

Clothing was also very expensive. Remember that everything had to be hand made, because sewing machines did not come into general use until the 1880s. Shoes, stockings, hats, and gloves for men and women had to be purchased and were expensive. In 1811 a pair of silk stockings cost 12/-, or more than $60 in today’s terms. Men’s shirts and underclothing were sewn at home, but their other clothes had to be bought, as they required tailoring rather than plain sewing. Women’s clothes were made at home or by a dressmaker (called a mantua maker), who would charge about 2 pounds (at least $200) per garment. The industrial revolution had reduced the price and increased the quantity of fabric available for sewing, but you needed about 6 or 7 yards (5 or 6 metres) of fabric to make a dress, and the cheapest fabric cost the equivalent of $15 per yard, so even if you made the dress yourself, it would cost about $100 for a very basic dress.

There was much remaking of old clothes. When fabric faded the dress was often unpicked, “turned,” and resewn so that it looked fresher. There was also much dying of old dresses, retrimming of hats and coats, and when the use-by date of outer garments had eventually come, they were often unpicked and remade into undergarments. We read of the Bennet girls retrimming hats. You may be sure that they resorted to other clothing economies too. We know that one of these economies was to retrim their dancing shoes. (Pride and Prejudice, I, 17, p.98)

Earning Money: Property, Military, Law, and Church

How did people earn their money?

The most gentlemanly way of being rich was to live off the rents of your land; hence the term “landed gentry.” The average farmer rented his farm from a landowner who had inherited large tracts of land that included whole villages and sometimes quite large towns. Spare capital was invested in “the funds,” i.e. in government bonds, which paid 5%. A girl’s dowry and her marriage settlement money would be invested in the funds, so Mrs Bennet, whose marriage settlement money was 5000 pounds, would have had the use of 250 pounds a year, most of which would have been spent on her clothes and the clothes of her daughters. Mr Bennet was a landowner, but obviously not on such a scale as Mr Darcy. From the standard of living of the Bennets, who did not exceed their income but spent every last penny of it, it would seem that Mr Bennet’s rents and investments brought in about 2000 pounds a year.

Landed property went to the eldest son. Sometimes there was a smaller property that could be willed to a younger son, or something came on the market and was bought for a younger son, but the younger sons of the gentry were expected to take up a profession, and the only jobs classed as gentlemanly professions were those of the army, navy, the law, or the church. Doctors, for instance, were only just emerging as a respectable group of people. The apothecary, who was a cross between a pharmacist and a doctor, and the surgeon were seen more as respectable tradesmen than as social equals, so the son of a gentleman would not consider such work.

The army was the most favoured way of keeping younger sons occupied. You needed to have money to be an officer in the regular army, as you had to buy a commission, and promotion was a matter of patronage more than ability. The officers who were stationed in Meryton were not regular army, but members of the militia, which was a force of volunteers, only existing in times of war, to add to the country’s defences. To join the militia as an officer, you did not need to have the social background or the money that you needed to enter the regular army. George Wickham joined the militia as the result of a casual meeting with an old friend; however, when he married Lydia, Mr Darcy purchased a commission for him in the regular army, thus giving him regular employment and some status in society.

Army pay was enough to live on but not much more, particularly if you wanted to maintain the standard of living of the wealthy family you may have come from. Many sons who joined the army also had an allowance from wealthy parents, helping them to live in the style that they had been accustomed to. Colonel Fitzwilliam is a case in point. He is the younger son of an Earl, and as such has had sufficient patronage to be promoted within the ranks of officers. He leads a comfortable existence, but were he to marry a girl who did not have a considerable fortune of her own, he would be unable to maintain the lifestyle that he currently enjoys. His father would probably not cut off his allowance (although it was possible that he might if the bride was not acceptable), however the cost of maintaining a genteel household, wife, and family would require the supplementing of his income by the money that would come with his wife as her marriage portion. Colonel Fitzwilliam, a younger son of a titled family, says to Elizabeth: “ ‘Our habits of expence make us too dependant, and there are not many in my rank in life who can afford to marry without some attention to money.’ ” (Pride and Prejudice, II, 10, p.206) Elizabeth suggests, jokingly, that being the younger son of an Earl he would expect to attract a woman who brings 50,000 pounds to the marriage, i.e. about 2,500 pounds per year. This, of course, would be a great heiress, but Colonel Fitzwilliam would probably be looking for a wife who had at least 20,000 pounds as her marriage portion, if he were to maintain a style of living such as he was accustomed to.

The navy was not quite so socially acceptable as the army because, although you still needed influence to get promoted, you also had to have a few brains. If you didn’t know your job in the navy, it was more evident more quickly and often with fatal results. And, of course, the opportunity for attending social functions was far more limited. It was more likely that a son of the Collins or the Lucas family would become a naval officer than the son of a Darcy or a Fitzwilliam.

The law had various levels of respectability. Mrs Bennet’s father had been a country lawyer, and as such had sufficient local standing to marry off his eldest daughter to his assistant, to wed his pretty daughter to the son of the local landowner, and to send his son off to be educated respectably and set up in business. But to be a country attorney had none of the cachet of a successful London lawyer, who would expect to make his mark in society, at the bar, and possibly as a judge. Mr Darcy had an uncle who was a judge. To become a successful London lawyer you would need, not only some brains, but also social connections and money to back you.

The other alternative for younger sons was the Church. Remember that in England there is an Established Church, i.e. the Church of England has official state recognition as the religion of the people. The Head of State appoints the bishops, and the Church of England receives state funding. In the 18th century there was also considerable patronage. If you were the local landowner, you had the power to appoint the local clergyman. This meant that it was possible to buy the position of the parish parson. When you were appointed as the vicar of a parish, whether you had bought the right, had it bought for you, or were presented with it as a favour, the position was yours for life. With the job went the parsonage house, rent-free, and the glebe, i.e. some farmland that you could farm yourself or rent out. You were also entitled to tithes from the parishioners. When you died, the parsonage and any lands that went with it reverted to the local landowner, who would appoint your successor. You therefore had to make your own provision for your wife and family, who would have to vacate the parsonage, without any pension, as soon as you died. You could appoint a curate to do most of the work, but if you did, you paid his wages.

To become a parson, all you had to do was to complete your undergraduate studies at a recognised university and then apply to a bishop, who would ask you some basic questions about the beliefs of the Established Church before ordaining you. Many parsons were good and worthy men, who carried out their duties of caring for the spiritual welfare of their parishioners, alleviating hardship through applying parish funds for worthy cases, but the system was obviously open to abuse. Often a landed gentleman would have one or more parishes available for his son or sons, regardless of their suitability for the work of a clergyman. Mr Collins gained the parish of Hunsford because Lady Catherine de Bourgh took a fancy to having someone who could grovel appropriately on command. He probably had to purchase the living, but it was “a valuable rectory,” and his income was sufficient for him to live in some degree of comfort. Elizabeth admits that in a prudential light, Charlotte has done well and lives in some degree of material comfort. (Pride and Prejudice, II, 9, p.200)

If you did not have a patron and wanted to be a clergyman, you might “hold a living” for a set period of time, i.e. you would perform the duties of the parish, live in the parsonage, and have the income from the tithes and the glebe, until the person who was to become the parson was ordained and could take over the duties himself. The other alternative was to be a curate who worked hard for little money, in the hope that one day, someone would consider you good enough at your job to become your patron.

Younger sons of genteel but not very wealthy parents might work in a counting house—what we would call a bank—but generally this put you beyond the pale socially. A younger brother of a family like the Lucases might well work in a counting house.

However, times were changing rapidly. Remember, this was the time of the Industrial Revolution. Jobs that hadn’t existed twenty years earlier were gaining respectability and recognition. It was possible to make lots of money and buy your way into social circles that had been exclusively the province of those born to rule. There are two examples of this in Pride and Prejudice. Mrs Bennet’s brother, Mr Gardiner, had he followed in his father’s footsteps, would have been a country attorney— respectable in a modest way—but he had branched out. Mrs Phillip’s husband had taken over the family law business, and Mr Gardiner was engaged in trade, probably in the import/export business. It may not have been so socially acceptable as law, but in a time of rapidly expanding markets, it was far more lucrative. The other is Mr Bingley. He came from the north of England, which meant that his father, who had left him property to the value of 100,000 pounds, would most likely have made his money through the cotton industry. He did not have landed property as Mr Darcy had, but he was an extremely wealthy young man receiving income, not only from the factories that his father would have left, but from investments too. Whilst Mr Bingley’s father would have spent his days managing his factory, he had made sufficient money for his son to be brought up as a gentleman. Mr Bingley would probably only have to go to a meeting of his Board of Directors several times a year. The rest of the time he could devote to pleasure.

Work and Leisure Time: Business, Parliament, The Social Season, Shooting and Hunting, Local Justice, and Gambling

So how did a gentleman spend his time?

We see that Mr Darcy had to attend to the business of his estate and was conscientious in doing so. He rode on ahead of his visitors to consult with his estate manager. He would do this a number of times in the year, and would receive letters of business from his manager fairly regularly, but his estate was very large, and his manager would have had a staff to carry out the day-to-day business—remember that George Wickham’s father had been the estate manager of Pemberley when he was alive. Mr Bingley did not have an estate to manage, but he would have spent some time in consultation with his business manager, who would have been in charge of the running of the factories and his investments. Colonel Fitzwilliam was able to spend quite a lot of time away from his regiment, even though England was always in a state of war, or preparedness for war, at this time. When the militia moved to Brighton, there would have been more for them to do militarily than when they were going through drill manoeuvres in Meryton, but the officers could still find time to spend on leisure activities.

On the whole, there was quite a lot of time for gentlemen to fill that had little or nothing to do with earning their living. One duty that you had if you were a Lord of the realm or a Member of Parliament was to rule the country. The House of Lords was the major legislative body at the time, and the House of Commons was more the House of Review. To be a member of the House of Lords, you had to have an hereditary title. Colonel Fitzwilliam’s father, being an Earl, would have been a member of the House of Lords. To be a member of the House of Commons, you were elected, but it was viewed as a service to your country, and you were not paid for this service. Also there was not universal suffrage. There were property rights attached to voting rights, and there was no secret ballot. Most of the parliamentary reforms that have made the Westminster system what it is today did not take place until the second half of the 19th century and some not until the 20th century. This meant that the House of Commons was made up of rich landowners. It is the kind of activity that Mr Darcy could become involved in, but probably wouldn’t, and that when Mr Bingley purchased an estate, might be a way for him to wash away the stain of newly made money.

Parliament sat from mid-January to the beginning of August, with an Easter break of several weeks. This meant that if you were a conscientious parliamentarian, you lived in London for most of this period. As the rich and powerful were in London, others who wanted to be in the social whirl also tended to congregate there, although the height of the social season was after Easter. Many of the gentry stayed on their country estates until after Easter. Others spent time in fashionable resorts such as Bath or Brighton. Those who had enjoyed “the little season” in London in February and March usually went out of London for a few weeks at Easter, either to their country estates or to a large house party at a wealthy person’s country property.

May and June were the months called “The Season.” Many balls and dinner parties were given in London during this time, particularly on Wednesdays and Saturdays. On these days Parliament did not sit in the evenings. There were also a number of race meetings in June and July, many of which were easily reached from London. Notice that the families in the Meryton district who had “been in town for the winter” (Pride and Prejudice, II,19, p.264) began to come back towards the end of June, and summer engagements, i.e. balls and dinners in the country, began. If you were going to go on a holiday such as that taken by the Gardiners, you did so during July, when the days were longest, and you were not likely to be troubled by wet weather and muddy roads. The height of summer was not a pleasant time to be in London. The smell from the open sewers, all that horse manure, and the disease they spread, made the country seem a more desirable and healthy place.

Parliamentary sessions finished early in August, allowing members to return to their country estates for the grouse-shooting season, which began on 12 August. This was followed by the partridge shooting season, which began on 1 September, and the pheasant-shooting season that began on 1 October. Shooting birds was not just a sport. It was an important food source, and a good landowner was careful not to shoot all of the birds on his property, so that there would be coverts enough for the following years. Mrs Bennet’s vulgarity and lack of understanding of the proper husbandry of an estate are shown when she gushes at Mr Bingley, “When you have killed all your own birds, Mr Bingley …I beg you will come here and shoot as many as you please, on Mr Bennet’s manor. I am sure he will be vastly happy to oblige you, and will save all the best covies for you.” (Pride and Prejudice, III,11, p.373) No wonder Elizabeth’s misery increased in having her mother’s stupidity displayed so publicly.

When the bird shooting season was over, there was still plenty to do, as the fox hunting season began on the first Monday in November and continued right through December. Again, this was more than just a sport. A hungry fox was a danger to flocks and poultry as well as to rabbits and birds. To preserve one’s property, a fox cull was prudent.

The fox hunting could go on until January, depending on the weather and if you had to be in London for the opening of Parliament. That meant that Christmas was usually spent in the country, but Christmas festivities were not so important in Regency times as they became later. Turning Christmas into a major celebration was the work of the Victorians. Remember that when Mr and Mrs Gardiner came to Longbourn for Christmas, they did not bring the children with them, even though they were devoted parents.

Another duty that a landowner had was to act as a local magistrate. Disputes between neighbours and violations of the law, such as poaching or theft, were dealt with in the first instance by the landowner sitting as a magistrate. More serious crimes would be referred on to a court of law, but local landowners oversaw quite a lot of the justice of the country.

A gentleman would hunt, go to race meetings, shoot, and fish. We also know that many of them read a good deal – Mr Darcy and Mr Bennet being two avid readers. Playing at billiards was another favourite pastime, and most country homes had a billiard room.

One of the other favourite pastimes was gambling. The gentlemen’s clubs, such as Whites, that were set up about this time were basically gambling clubs, and they were established so that it was more difficult to load the dice or deal from the bottom of the pack. A number of “gaming hells” were not so scrupulous, and would fleece young men of large amounts of money by giving them free drinks and then getting them to play cards with “ivory turners,” i.e. cheats.

Even genteel games of cards could cost a lot of money. Remember when Elizabeth comes down from Jane’s sick room to find Mr and Mrs Hurst and Caroline and Charles Bingley playing cards? They are playing a game called “loo.” Elizabeth is invited to join them, but she declines, suspecting them to be playing for high stakes (Pride and Prejudice, I, 8, p.40). Loo is a game in which each hand is played quickly, and therefore even if you were playing for very little money for each hand, you could lose your money very quickly.

Gambling was a major problem of the period, particularly among young men with plenty of time on their hands. Look at how concerned Jane was when she discovered that Wickham was a gambler (Pride and Prejudice, III, 6, p.328), and look at how much money he had wasted at gambling. The code of conduct of the gentleman of the period meant that a gambling debt was a “debt of honour.” It had to be paid before you paid tradesmen, the rent, or any other legitimate debt. If you did not pay your gambling debts, you forfeited your right to respect from your fellow officers and gentlemen. Wickham left tradesmen’s debts behind him but also gambling debts. He was not a gentleman.

Most of the other activities a gentleman would participate in were activities in which the ladies would also share, so this might be the time to talk about how the day was spent.

Daily Routine: Breakfast, Lunch, Morning Visits, Activities at Home

Daylight had to be used to its fullest extent, as you could not create the artificial daylight of electricity. That is why country dinners and balls were given during the summer months, when long stretches of dark country lanes would not have to be negotiated at night. Even during the summer, balls were usually held on or near full moon, so that travel at night would be safer. This was also the reason why dinner hours in the country were much earlier than they were in London. In London, streets were lit by flares, and the way was marked by the houses lining the roads, so travelling by night was not so dangerous.

Although people, particularly the servants, rose early, breakfast was not until quite late, usually ten o’clock. This was because fires had to be lit, water had to be carried inside, heated, etc., so it took some time for breakfast to be prepared, no matter how much preparation had been done the night before. Many more activities were carried out before breakfast than we would think of doing today. If you were in a town, you might ride in the park before breakfast, visit a lending library, or go shopping. If you were in the country, you might ride about inspecting the estate, or consult with your groom, gamekeeper, or steward. It was normal to attend to your correspondence before breakfast, and the lady of the house usually consulted with her housekeeper before breakfast.

Breakfast lasted about an hour. Jane Austen’s mother wrote home when she was visiting rich relations and described breakfast as consisting of coffee, chocolate and tea, plum cake, pound cake, hot rolls, cold rolls, bread and butter, and toast (Jane Austen’s World, p.40). From the tone of the letter it would seem there was not quite such a large selection at their home breakfast, but the Austens had a home farm when Mr Austen was rector of Steventon parish, so there would have been plenty of fresh eggs and dairy products.

Because breakfast was so late, there was not a regular lunch. If you were out shopping, you might eat a pastry or cake, and if you went visiting, you would be offered refreshments, which could be quite substantial – look at the cold meats and pyramids of fruit that were provided for the ladies when Elizabeth and her aunt visited at Pemberley (Pride and Prejudice, III, 3, p.296). A light meal such as this, eaten between breakfast and dinner, was not usual. Such a meal was called a “nuncheon.” Another time when you might eat a “nuncheon” was if you were travelling. Elizabeth and Maria Lucas were treated to a “nuncheon” of cold meat and salad (which Elizabeth had to pay for) when they were travelling home from Hunsford (Pride and Prejudice, II, 16, p.242). By the way, Lydia had included a cucumber as part of the meal, which was very extravagant, as a cucumber was a luxury item of food costing about 1/-, i.e. more than $5 in today’s money. Lunch as a regular meal did not come into existence until towards the end of the 19th century.

We think of the morning finishing at midday, but at the beginning of the 19th century they referred to the time until going to your room to dress for dinner as morning, i.e. until 3.00 p.m. or 4.00 p.m. So when they talk of “morning visits,” it means a visit paid sometime between 11.00 a.m. and 3.00 p.m. Morning visits were one of the main social activities of the ladies.

If you were at home, you might occupy your time by reading, practising your music, painting, doing one of the ladylike craft activities that was popular at the time, or sewing. When ladies referred to their “work,” they meant their sewing. Jane Austen referred to her literary activities as “writing.” When she talked of her “work,” she meant her sewing, and she was a very fine seamstress. At Chawton, where she spent the last eight years of her life, there is a patchwork quilt of fine workmanship which she made. There is also a delicate needlecase that she made as a gift for her niece. Jane Austen was also a very good pianist, and spent at least an hour each morning practising her music.

Dinner and Supper: Dinner Courses, Evening Entertainment, Supper Customs

It was usual to change one’s clothes before sitting down to dinner, which took place much earlier than it does today. If you were in the country, it could start any time between 3.00 p.m. and 5.00 p.m. It was usually later in town – sometime between 6.00 p.m. and 8.00 p.m. These hours had much to do with daylight. If you were inviting guests for dinner in the country, you had to consider their safe journey home, and it was much safer to drive home in the twilight than in the dark.

One of the things that puzzles the modern reader about the eating habits of the period was how the food on the dinner table was organised. “Mrs Bennet had been strongly inclined to ask them to stay and dine there, that day; but though she always kept a very good table, she did not think any thing less than two courses could be good enough for a man, on whom she had such anxious designs, or satisfy the appetite and pride of one who had ten thousand a year.” (Pride and Prejudice, III, 11, p.374) If Mrs Bennet kept such a good table, obviously a “course” was not the same then as it is now. This is confirmed by Mrs Bennet’s description of the food at the dinner party she had the following Tuesday, where she talks of the haunch of venison, the soup, and the partridges, which seem to have formed only a part of the meal (Pride and Prejudice, III, 12, p.379).

In Austen’s time, dishes were put on the middle of the table. With a little assistance from the servants, you helped yourself to the things that were nearest to you, got passed your way, or you were bold enough to ask to have passed to you. I have an idea that a shy young person who was sitting near food that they did not like might well get up from the table hungry. Each course would consist of three or four main dishes, with about three or four more side dishes. Usually a first course would consist of soup, several baked dishes, such as a joint of meat, a fish and/or a poultry dish, and a vegetable dish. The side dishes could include vegetable, mushroom, or pasta dishes, and could also include sweet dishes, such as an apple tart. If you were having a second course, the table was completely cleared, and then you got another four main dishes and four side dishes. A second course might include some cold joints and perhaps more sweet dishes, such as blancmange or stewed fruit. When this was finished, the table was again cleared, and dessert was placed. This consisted of nuts, as well as dried and preserved fruits. During dessert, the children of the house sometimes came in to meet the guests.

When dessert was finished, the ladies would move to the drawing room, and the gentlemen would “pass the port.” It seems that during this drinking session, the conversation could get very bawdy. In Jane Austen’s works, if a gentleman is among the first to join the ladies after dinner, it is usually a sign of her approval. She is telling you that this man has a higher mind than to spend the evening getting drunk and swapping dirty stories, or that he particularly wishes to speak to one of the young ladies before other men join the party and compete for her attention.

The evening was spent in conversation, in listening to the musical members of the party perform, in playing cards, or in parlour games. Quite often reading aloud formed part of the evening’s entertainment. The evening parties at Netherfield and Rosings give a good idea of the way an evening was spent, and you may understand why Colonel Fitzwilliam was so pleased to have Elizabeth Bennet’s conversation and music to listen to as a variation from Lady Catherine’s monologues! (Pride and Prejudice, II, 8, p.193)

Several hours after dinner was finished, it was time for supper, or, as it was sometimes called, “the tea board.” Sometimes important guests were invited for dinner, and less important ones were invited to join the party for supper. As people knew their station in life and their pecking order in the social scheme, nobody seems to have taken offence at such discrimination. In town, supper was usually a light meal of tea and cakes after returning from the theatre or some such entertainment. It tended to be a bigger meal in the country, as dinner was earlier, and if people had to travel any distance to their own home, they needed some fortification before starting their journey. It was a buffet meal, or what we might call “finger food.” Notice that at the Bennets’ home, tea and coffee are served when visitors are invited. There would have been several types of cake, biscuits, pastries, and sandwiches or savouries. (Pride and Prejudice, III, 12, p.377) Supper was a much more formal meal when it was given as part of a ball. People would sit down to a more substantial repast about half-way through the evening’s entertainment, and before resuming dancing or going back to the card table, they might be entertained by some music.

Entering Society: On the Marriage Market

Another aspect of Regency England that was very different from today’s norm was a young girl’s introduction to society.

“…Are any of your younger sisters out, Miss Bennet?”

“Yes, Ma’am, all.”

“All! What, all five out at once? Very odd! And you only the second. The younger ones out before the elder are married! Your younger sisters must be very young?”

(Pride and Prejudice, II, 6, p.187)

When Lady Catherine questions Elizabeth about her sisters, she is not enquiring about their sexual preferences. When a girl “came out,” it meant that she had left the schoolroom and had officially entered society. She was now on the marriage market. When a girl was about 17 she was introduced to society, usually by her parents throwing a party or ball, and she then accompanied her mother on morning visits. It was then proper for friends and acquaintances to include her in invitations to “grown-up” events, such as dinners and balls.

If she were sufficiently high on the social ladder, she would be presented at court. You note that Mrs Bennet asks if Miss de Bourgh has been presented (Pride and Prejudice, I,14, p.75). She, being the granddaughter of an Earl, could have been presented, whereas the Bennets are not quite high enough up the social ladder to presume to royal recognition; however, Sir William Lucas has hopes of royal presentation in the family when Mr Collins inherits Longbourn, which says something about Sir William’s pretentions.

Traditionally the younger girls in the family did not “come out” until their elder sisters were married or had been in society for a sufficient number of years that they had fallen into the category of “old maid.” Mrs Bennet did not observe this tradition, as she was anxious to get any or all of the girls married as soon as possible, and she also wanted them to enjoy themselves. This might make Elizabeth’s answer to Lady Catherine more understandable. Also notice that when Charlotte becomes engaged to Mr Collins, “the younger girls formed hopes of coming out a year or two sooner.” (Pride and Prejudice, I, 22, p. 137)

Other aspects of society have changed in the two hundred years since Jane Austen was writing, but space does not allow their inclusion here. I hope that this glimpse into her world will show that Jane Austen did not write to baffle her audience; however, because customs have changed in two hundred years, some of the subtleties of her work can be unrecognised by a modern reader. Look again at the quotation about the reception of the news of Charlotte Lucas’s engagement that I used at the beginning of this paper. Does it make more sense now? It would be a shame to miss out on Jane Austen’s sharp critical comment simply because you did not understand a reference, which she made in good faith, about something that has changed over time.


Book, chapter and page references from Pride and Prejudice in this paper are to the Cambridge Edition, Cambridge University Press, 2006.

Other books used in compiling this work include:

Jane Austen Letters 1796-1817, Chapman, R.W. ed., 1955
The Jane Austen Cookbook, Black, Maggie and Le Faye, Deirdre, 1995
The Age of Elegance 1812 – 1822, Bryant, Arthur, 1950
Jane Austen Fashion, Byrde, Penelope, 1999
The Weaker Vessel, Fraser, Antonia, 1999
Regency Etiquette: the Mirror of Graces 1811, A Lady of Distinction, 1997
Jane Austen’s World, Lane, Maggie, 1996
Women in England 1500-1760, Laurence, Anne,1996
The Diary of a Village Shopkeeper 1754-1765, Turner, Thomas ed. By David Vaisey, 1998


EIL Editor’s Notes: Since this article’s author, Pamela Whalan, is from Australia, you may notice that she follows British usage in punctuation and other formatting. In your own writing, please follow the formatting standards requested by your teachers.

Pamela Whalan has adapted Pride and Prejudice for the stage; you may enjoy reading an excerpt from her play.


Pamela Whalan is a Jane Austen scholar who has adapted Austen's novels for the theater.Since 1962, Pamela Whalan has been an active member of the Genesian Theatre in Sydney, Australia, including working as the Theatre Director for six years. She has also been a member of JASA (Jane Austen Society of Australia) for twenty years. Combining her love of the works of Austen and her love of theatre, she has adapted five of Austen’s novels for the stage. These adaptations have been published and produced successfully in Australia and the United States. In addition, on a number of occasions Pamela has presented papers on the works of Austen at conferences in Australia, Canada, and the U.S.A.

In 2002, Pamela returned to her hometown of Newcastle in New South Wales, Australia. Shortly afterwards, she was invited to become a judge for CONDA (City of Newcastle Drama Awards) and performed this civic duty for the next twelve years.

Pamela holds an M.A. from the University of Sydney and an MLitt from the University of New England (Australia). She has done extensive post-graduate study in the field of 20th century Irish Drama, and she taught English for many years at the University of Technology in Sydney.

When will you read Jane Austen’s work in Excellence in Literature?

E4.6 Focus text: Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen
Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen (Modern Library Classics)

E4.6 Honors text: Persuasion or other novel by Jane Austen
Persuasion by Jane Austen (Norton Critical Edition, 2nd edition)

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